Thanks for showing up!

Let’s take a moment to ponder what it means to show up to help a friend in need.

I thought I knew what it means to help a friend, as I have always taken pride in my willingness to help my friends when they call on me to do so. However, when I was younger, I would complain when my helping them was an inconvenience to me. Since I am always busy, I did a lot of complaining. I am not proud of my attitude, but I feel that honesty is vital with self-analysis. My mindset changed as I matured; now, I don’t complain as frequently as I once did. After my recent encounter with friends who showed up for me during my time of need, I don’t think I will ever complain again!

So, recently, I have been forced to wear multiple hats on the job because of the unexpected departure of an employee. One of the benefits of managing a larger team is having extra hands to fill in during chaotic workplace infractions. On the other hand, with a minor group, you must know how to do every facet of the job to ensure a continued and smooth workflow. Although I am thoroughly knowledgeable about all aspects of the job, it is a slight inconvenience to handle everything solely; This is why I was delighted that my friends stepped up and volunteered to help me.

First, I will thank Will for being more proactive with gathering news, data, and applicants to fill the vacancies. His Facebook post has led to multiple inquiries from people who want to join our nonprofit organization. I am pleased with the number and quality of applicants.

Next, my friends from Amity Club deserve a huge thank-you along with a homecooked meal. These ladies--who would be mortified if I mentioned their name in this article--showed up for me without me asking. A couple of them came into the office, saw what took place, and came up with a rotating volunteer schedule to help provide coverage of the front desk. I am grateful for the Amity ladies who show up for me. Another special lady from Amity was the first to share her time to ensure our community paper was better. I am blessed to have her find errors and make corrections that we miss when rushing to press. She has never asked for anything in return. None of the ladies have ever asked for anything. I am so blessed to be part of a social organization that teaches and encourages volunteerism at its finest.

Also, I’ve had several people--outside of Amity Club--who have called to offer support and assistance during the past few weeks. It is hard for me to express how touched I am by their authenticity and concern. I thank God for you every day.

So, what does it mean to show up to help a friend in need? First, it means to be authentic with your service. Second, mix in empathy because it would be nearly impossible to help if you can’t imagine walking in that person’s shoes. Finally, show up and serve. Some people will never admit they need help. You have to know them well enough to show up anyway.

Thanks again, friends, for showing up!