Publisher’s Points to Ponder
Recently, several people in the community voiced their concern about a headline I wrote for an article about Billy Thompson—a longtime resident of Olney and my friend. The headline upset Billy’s friends and family, so I am offering a written apology on top of the verbal ones I’ve extended most of the day. I assure you that I had the best intention regarding the headline. However, after speaking with Billy’s sister, Anita, I understand why the headline may have sent the wrong message.
Anita was gracious toward me and was open to hearing my thoughts behind the headline. I was crushed amid her sadness, but I managed to explain that I thought some people would be inspired by a message of hope and redemption tucked behind those blaring words camouflaged as a headline. Again, I hold myself accountable for my poor judgment. Anita, on the other hand, said the headline might imply to some that her brother chose to be baptized because he was facing death, which is untrue.
Anita and I recognized that we have different perspectives. Perspective can be tricky and should be handled with care because different points of view can be the most significant divider among the closest friends. However, we bridged the gap after we navigated to the end of a challenging conversation, and she told me that she forgave me. Her willingness to set aside her hurt to console me with forgiveness is a selfless act that reminded me of Proverbs 17:9 “Love prospers when a fault is forgiven but dwelling on it separates close friends.” (NLT).
Billy and I became friends when he renovated 213 E. Main. He was a highly skilled artist who mastered carpentry with ease. He took pride in his work and didn’t mind sharing his knowledge. What I liked most about Billy, other than his gorgeous hair, was his ability to hold his head up and smile despite the internal heartache caused by his beloved wife’s passing. Sadness about the loss of loved ones was our common ground and speaking about the joy of the Lord was the foundation underneath.
In closing, I am sorry for choosing the wrong words. I am grateful to be loved by those who know my heart. And I will always cherish the memory of Billy as the spirited, God-fearing man who made me laugh every time we talked. I encourage everyone to focus on the good Billy brought to this community. Focus on his legacy of love that we will forever see in the buildings and homes that remain. Rest in peace, my dear friend, until we meet again.