Never too old to learn new things

Was all prepared to write a blood and tears soap box addition about the fiasco going on over in Afghanistan, but thinking twice I decided to let it cool off in the back for a bit before diving into that mess.

I have been learning a great deal lately about a subject I thought I knew like a well-worn novel, Myself. Although I do know myself pretty well, I am learning that it is ok to not always be the light or project a happy front. I am for sure a happy person by nature and love to bring the light, as I say. But recently I have been going through some heavy issues and have been taking advice about it.

Having to always be at events and in the public, I always try my best to project a positive attitude, even when I am in no mood or going through sad times. I recently learned this is damaging not only to myself but as people see or know me. By always projecting positive vibes and joy, others may not know that I need a word of encouragement or positive vibes my way.

Just goes to show myself that I am always growing and learning and I like to pass along what I learn if I think it will help others. I learned its ok to let people see you sad or mad to a certain degree, happy, of course, or even depressed. Friends and family can’t possibly know when they need to step in and help if all they see is a happy go lucky person all of the time.

I am not perfect and have bad or even sad days, just like anyone else and it is ok to show it. That being said, I am not just going to pour out my soul to every Tom, Dick or Harry walking down the avenue, that would just be silly. But I will start letting people see all sides of me when it is appropriate and you can too. Let those around you see your vulnerable side and just wait and see how many people come to cheer you up, give you a hug or some words of encouragement. This is Will B. saying, hug yah later friend!