getting a participation trophy
It’s that time of year again. When things are running at a slower pace, and many vacations and trips to the lake are planned. For me, I am still looking back at recent events from the school year, and it’s time for my annual soap box edition that gets me frowns from some, and pats on the back by others.
I had been watching the annual argument on how all kids should get an award. There are two sides of the fence on this heated issue that comes up every single year - without fail - in May. On one side, people and parents think everyone should get a trophy (or award) just for showing up, and on the other side people think that awards and trophies should been earned through hard work and dedication.
I definitely fall on the side of the fence that believes they should be earned. I do understand both point of views and believe we can disagree and still be friends. Growing up, I played many sports and entered many contests. It is through my experiences how I came to choose the side I chose.
If everyone is a winner at every event by just showing up, then it diminishes the hard work of the ones who put in countless hours of practice, learning and effort. I am not discounting the efforts of those that do try yet fall short. There is a lot to be admired for an effort put forth and the grit to not give up, but… an award or trophy is to be earned. I feel the same way about respect. I hear this often, that so-and-so should be given respect just because of the position they hold - or their age - or even because they just give respect. I strongly believe respect is earned, and should never be given out freely otherwise. The same goes for awards and trophies. The lesson in losing is always more valuable than the lesson learned through winning. Sure, winning is fun. I would be lying if I said I didn’t love to win. But there is no growth without losing. It teaches an individual many things, like a strong work ethic, diligence, humility and the cause to focus on improving yourself, just to name a few. This is Will B. saying, “Losing is ok, as long as you learn from the loss.”