Publisher’s Points to Ponder:

Hopefully, as you read this column, you are getting prepared for the best Thanksgiving meal you’ve ever had. You are beaming with excitement from thinking about reuniting with family and friends while eating the best Thanksgiving meal you’ve ever had. You can hardly contain the delight of the Black Friday sales that will begin after the best Thanksgiving meal you’ve ever had. Or, as you read this column, you are simply thankful. Either way, be fully engaged in whatever Thanksgiving brings you this year and be mindful of the memories you’re making.

So many things come to mind when I ponder the memories associated with past Thanksgiving celebrations. Some are good, some not so good and some are hilarious. Regardless of the feelings that arise from each of these celebrations, they’re still experiences. The experiences are a part of the story. And the stories are what connect us to others who will pass all the stories that will keep the memories alive. Which one of your Thanksgiving memories would you say is one to remember?

If I had to choose a Thanksgiving to remember, I would choose the 2018 Thanksgiving. Although I’d received a few invitations from my local friends, I decided to remain home alone. To my surprise, my sister coordinated a surprise Thanksgiving feast, and my family brought Thanksgiving to me with all the trimmings. I didn’t have to do anything. They prepared the entire meal that included turkey and dressing, mustard greens and cornbread, gumbo, field peas, sweet potato pie, cakes and the list goes on. As the youngest of nine, I had to struggle to get attention and to take part in things such as the Thanksgiving meal prep. However, as an adult watching my sisters prepare the Thanksgiving feast, I was happy to be the observer; It was fantastic. That memory will remain special to me because it is a reminder of those for which I’m genuinely grateful. I pray your Thanksgiving memories will do the same.

Considering the bigger picture, don’t get caught up on things that may not go as planned--turkeys that are too dry, burned pies, latecomers, missed sales. Instead, focus on enjoying moments and making memories wherever you are.  This year be determined to create a Thanksgiving to remember for years and stories for the next generation to tell.

Happy Thanksgiving!